When resisting is not worth it

Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like. Lao Tzu

Human nature is in every human being the main cause of their actions whether they are good or bad

You find yourself arguing for everything, complaining also for minimum details in your life.

Are you ready for more changes?

Changes are spontaneous some times and others are a succession of events that will make you change completely from one year to the other.

Changes are hard to face some times like the absence of a family member due to divorce, death or simple physical absence because of work.

People have been facing the same problems since the creation of the world.

It seems that the more you resist a sudden change in your life makes you feel worse and the more you try, the more it hurts.

Let's face it. You can not change human nature as if you had a magical wand and make life easier.

You have to accept people as they are and deal with their positive side.

Imagine you are in a small boat stranded in the middle of the sea. You have no veils, no anchor, and no way to source it towards any place.

You need to allow the flow takes you somewhere.

Now let's imagine you have veils and a way to source your small boat in a direction and the same flow comes under you, that flow is very strong. If you resist to it, your boat might be destroyed all of a sudden.

The smartest advice would be: allow the flow to take you and when possible orient your veils in a a way that takes you out of that flow.

There are things that will never change even though you want it so.

Just let go.

It will be healthier for you. There is no need to fight back, nor resist if it has no case to do that.

Things will get better eventually.

Sooner or later everything will come to the place it has to be. Maybe you'll see it, maybe not.

Give the benefits of the hope in those events and keep going.

Move on.

Do not that event stop you and delay you.

No case to resist and change what's wrong?

Move on,

Live, because no one else will live for you. Only you.

Keep moving forward.

Ivan Caballero